Should My Child Toot her Horn?

If you are a parent, you've likely been faced with the idea of having your child learn a musical instrument. With four girls, we've had our share of music lessons. Our oldest daughter started out sweetly playing the flute for three years. Then at age 13, she suddenly asked to get a drum set. It took a while to warm up to the idea, and now we have two girls drumming. We only had second thoughts the day our neighbor, a policeman, showed up to ask us to quiet down. Apparently the sound insulation we added to our basement wasn't doing the trick. If your child hasn't started playing an instrument, you may be wondering if it makes sense to spend money on an instrument and lessons. Here are some reasons you may want to consider:

Playing a musical instrument makes you smarter. Many studies have shown that parts of the brain develop in people who play instruments and not in non-instrument playing minds. Children who start playing before the age of seven have striking brain development. It enhances coordination, concentration and memory and even improves eyesight and hearing. Some believe it crucial for total brain development.

It teaches discipline. Anytime you learn to master something, you have to set aside time to practice. This creates the process of discipline.

It creates a sense of accomplishment. Of couse at first, some instruments can be hard to learn to play, even frustrating. Over time, however, there is an amazing sense of accomplishment and self esteem for the child or adult who learns to conquer a song or a new lesson.

Playing an instrument relieves stress. Music is very relaxing, especially soft and soothing music. It is also a great activity for a child or teen to go to when they need to "be alone".

It is fun. When you play an instrument you have endless opportunties to join groups during your life where others like playing music. You can also perform at weddings or parties. Music is often part of any event that has a celebration.